October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and Nepali Women in New Jersey Have an Innovative Idea for Raising Awareness

October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and Nepali women in New Jersey are marking the occasion with the innovative Red Saree campaign.

This annual event, now in its 7th year, is scheduled for Saturday, October 5th, 2024, from 12:00 PM to 7:00 PM at the HCCC College Library Building, 81 Sip Ave, Jersey City, NJ 07306.

This year’s theme focuses on raising awareness about domestic and sexual violence as part of a broader initiative for women’s empowerment.

Organized by Bolo Behen (Speak Sister) and Hudson S.P.E.A.K.S. Against Sexual Violence, the event aims to address these pressing issues while celebrating womanhood. The red saree symbolizes energy, courage, determination, passion, and action.

Bishnu Maya Pariyar, Program Director of HUDSON S.P.E.A.K.S. Against Sexual Violence, highlights growing concerns within the community, stating, “There has been a significant increase in cases of domestic violence in the Nepali-speaking community in the USA. Domestic violence-related murders and suicides in the Nepali community in the USA have also increased, and mental health problems have also risen.”

Attendees can expect to engage in discussions on social issues affecting the South Asian community, enjoy South Asian cuisine, and participate in activities aimed at promoting awareness. The event provides a space for women to share their experiences and support one another.

“We invite everyone to join us in standing against domestic and sexual violence and participating in a day of solidarity and cultural celebration,” said Dr. Bishnu Maya Pariyar.

Domestic and sexual violence are significant issues affecting the South Asian community in the United States. The prevalence of domestic and sexual violence among South Asian Americans is alarmingly high. Nearly half (48%) of South Asian immigrants in the U.S. reported experiencing physical domestic violence in their lifetime, according to a 2021 study published in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence and cited by survivor advocacy organization South Asian SOAR.  One study found that 47% of South Asian women experienced some form of intimate partner violence (IPV).

Several factors contribute to the high rates of violence in this community. Women who are threatened regarding their immigration status or depend on their partner for their visa are more likely to experience IPV. The emphasis on preserving marriage and family unity can make it difficult for survivors to leave abusive situations. Due to multigenerational housing being common in South Asian cultures, abuse from in-laws is a significant issue. Lower income and education levels are associated with higher rates of IPV.

South Asian survivors face unique challenges in seeking help. Only 27.6% of sexual assault survivors reported their assaults to authorities or received services. Cultural and religious stigma often prevent survivors from seeking help or leaving abusive relationships. Lack of awareness about available services, especially among recent immigrants, and fear of bringing shame to the family or community, are additional barriers to seeking support.

“Hudson S.P.E.A.K.S. Against Sexual Violence is dedicated to creating safer communities and supporting survivors’ healing. We focus on inclusivity, uplifting marginalized identities through diversity initiatives, culturally relevant advocacy, and trauma-informed services. We serve all survivors of sexual assault over the age of 13, regardless of gender, race, religion, financial status, immigration status, educational background, gender identity, or sexual orientation. Our services also extend to family members, marital/dating partners, and friends. Hudson S.P.E.A.K.S. aims to end sexual violence through education, awareness, empowerment, support, and advocacy for all affected individuals. We offer a 24/7 multilingual hotline,” said Dr. Pariyar, further emphasizing Hudson S.P.E.A.K.S.’s mission.